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My biggest fear is losing my creativity
  • 10
  • 1477
San Francisco

Mine is to end up mediocre at what i do

1w ago   •  ♥ 30
9
"I don't like the way he's treating you." I needed to hear that, and the person who said was almost a complete stranger. She really changed things for me.
  • 21
  • 295
New York

Don't ever settle OP <3 no one deserves less than what's best for them~ if someone isn't treating you right then drop them because even if you don't see it EVERYONE has someone that would treat them better~

1w ago   •  ♥ 5

Be careful. A complete stranger only has your side and it's easy to hear what you want. But if he is really the one being unreasonable deep down you'll know, then dump him.

1w ago   •  ♥ 16

Remember, in every relationship, it all comes down to your happiness. If you aren't happy in a relationship, then move on; a relationship shouldn't be hard.

1w ago   •  ♥ 6
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I consider it a personal victory if I get too drunk and don't find any texts to my exes the next morning.
  • 17
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San Francisco

Ditto, but when I wake up with my phone, wallet and CCs with no open tabs

1w ago   •  ♥ 2

Drunk you could be deleting evidence so that hungover you feels victory

1w ago   •  ♥ 5

Loser!

1w ago
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I just saw Neil DeGrasse Tyson speak and it makes me wish I lived up to my potential.
  • 3
  • 681
Minnesota

Chill.

5mo ago   •  ♥ 1

Same with me...

5mo ago

Why don't you do it now? Only you are stopping yourself, once you know better. Your younger self didn't, so forgive her and move on.

5mo ago   •  ♥ 1
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I feel so behind in life. I just thought I'd be at a much different point by now.
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New York

Chin up buttercup! You still have the rest of your life to get shit done.

2w ago   •  ♥ 15

You'll be fine! We've all felt this way in life I'm sure. Your just finding yourself

1w ago   •  ♥ 7

I think a lot of people feel this way. I feel that way too. Make things happen, it's never too late!! :)

1w ago   •  ♥ 13
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I eat healthy all day and exercise like a demon...Then I drunk-eat at midnight.
  • 22
  • 281
New York

Sounds perfect

1w ago   •  ♥ 7

Fuck conventional wisdom. Do what makes you happy!

1w ago   •  ♥ 6

That's my life! HOW DID YOU GET INSIDE MY HEAD

1w ago   •  ♥ 8
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I totally just used my hair straightener to iron my skirt.
  • 22
  • 242
New York

That works? ??

1w ago   •  ♥ 1

Yessir

1w ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 6

Pretty brilliant. Though I'll just use a steamer.

6d ago   •  ♥ 1
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I just looked up my ex BFs marathon time just to make sure I'm still faster....I am
  • 16
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Chicago

Ahhhhhh....satisfaction

6d ago   •  ♥ 5

Suck on the asshole!

6d ago   •  ♥ 2

That's sad.

6d ago   •  ♥ 7
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My life is just a series of awkward moments separated by snacks.
  • 22
  • 570
Nashville

You're on quite a roll this morning, friend.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 13

Sounds like u have an amazing life

1mo ago   •  ♥ 9

I see nothing wrong here

6d ago   •  ♥ 7
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I keep the plastic on my electronics. Always. The plastic on my printer has lasted longer than my last two relationships.
  • 25
  • 287
New York

That shows plastic is much more loyal. I need a Ken doll

2mo ago   •  ♥ 13

The plastic was usually cleaner and more useful in the end.

2mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 12

Me too! I thought I was the only one.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 1
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I never ever talk about my body but deep down I think if I was skinny I would have everything I want.
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  • 399
Los Angeles

It has nothing to do with weight.

3w ago   •  ♥ 5

I feel similarly to this, FoF. I've been told many times that it doesn't matter, though, and I suspect if I lost a lot of weight it wouldn't magically make me a better person.

3w ago   •  ♥ 7

Honestly, though, I wish I had a more concrete answer. I feel like losing a large amount of weight would probably improve my motivation and make me happier - maybe that, in turn, would make me more desirable. I think a lot of the reason I avoid doing anything is because I don't think I could handle it if I lost a ton of weight and then I was still lonely and miserable. That's the point at which I'd realise the problem was with me and not just how I look, which is what I currently hide behind.

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Even in my 30's I'm still afraid of a shark coming out of the flappy thing in swimming pools just to eat me
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San Francisco

Just loled in the middle of spin class

3w ago

OMFG i thought I was the only one who feared that

3w ago   •  ♥ 6

We all do. And the monster under the bed grabbing your foot if it hangs over the side

3w ago   •  ♥ 8
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When I wake up in the morning I usually feel like P Diddy.
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Los Angeles

When I wake up in the morning, I usually feel like peeing.

3w ago   •  ♥ 56
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I wish I could let myself tell you I can see forever with you. It terrifies me how much love I feel for you. I think you are wonderful.
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Los Angeles

I think you're wonderful too

3w ago   •  ♥ 7

I feel that way about someone. He isn't perfect but he feels so perfect to me. We could be so happy together :-(

3w ago   •  ♥ 16

Wish I knew who this was. Guy or girl?

3w ago   •  ♥ 2
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My boyfriend told me he doesn't find me attractive because I'm not model thin. I haven't been able to eat without breaking into tears. I'm thinking about losing 20lbs of fat and then losing 180lbs of asshole boyfriend.
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San Jose

Lose the fatass boyfriend first. Then decide what to do.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 96
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Ever since he died I feel like he is constantly here. I find it more frightening than comforting. The lost sleep, things gone missing, strange noises and random calls. My ex is a ghost and he won't let me move on.
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  • 1061
Los Angeles

Talk to him. Ask him politely to leave. Tell him you're ok and safe

1mo ago   •  ♥ 77
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I get so bored at work. I move my mouse every few minutes so it doesn't go idle while I play on my phone.
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Florida

Lol, 7 figure income.....rightttttt

1mo ago   •  ♥ 39
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That moment when you've had a great day, you're proud of yourself and you come home and realize you have no one to celebrate with. It makes things just a little less sweet than they ought to be.
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  • 574
New York

Oh no friend! I will celebrate with you! Are you DC or NY?

1mo ago   •  ♥ 4

A bartender is the best friend you'll ever have

1mo ago   •  ♥ 18

I feel ya there....surrounded by acquaintances.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 10
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I politely offered my roommate pizza rolls and he accepted. Bitch you're supposed to politely decline. Now I'm down half my pizza rolls. Bitch.
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  • 4257
Illinois

Don't offer what you aren't willing to give. Twat.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 222
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Sometimes when I get terrified I'll never make it in life, I think about how technically I can accomplish anything with time. All life is, is time, and what we do with it.
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  • 1277
San Francisco

And right now you're spending your time on Secret. Well played.

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I'm not close with either of my brothers...and I'm okay with that.
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  • 740
San Francisco

I am not close to my girl friend . I 'm okay with that.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 43
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Had to delete all my selfies to make room for iOS 8.
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  • 2665
San Francisco

Ain't nobody got time for that!

1mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 77
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Just paid off my last credit card. 100% debt free for the first time in ages.
  • 30
  • 430
Seattle

Amazing!

1mo ago

Congrats friend!

1mo ago

Congrats friend!

1mo ago
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My vegan bf thinks I drive downtown only to buy cheaper groceries. What he doesn't know is that I spend a chunk of those savings at the Popeyes next to the supermarket where I can enjoy my fried chicken without his judgemental look
  • 97
  • 703
New York

I hate vegans. Dump his ass.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 35
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I'm starting to think letting you back into my life was a mistake. You said all the right things and now you aren't following through at all. I really just can't do it anymore. When you don't hear from me you know why
  • 128
  • 1146
New York

It's like when you have that empty bottle of shampoo you didn't throw away and you decide to put water in it but it's just not the same.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 107
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I just ordered a family combo pack at McDonald's to eat by myself.
  • 38
  • 410
New York

Bathing Suit season is over! Enjoy!

1mo ago   •  ♥ 14

You have a problem.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 4

I've done it to, when you work there you gotta eat:p

1mo ago   •  ♥ 2
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I have had so many interviews and have gone on so many dates that I can't tell the difference anymore. I think that recruiter liked me, he was all like "what do you like to do for fun?" And I'm like, "where's my free cocktail?"
  • 91
  • 396
California

Lol if you work in a bar. Yeah spend more time doing than talking about it. I personally don't like small talk for that reason.

3w ago   •  ♥ 2

As a woman, dating comes with free cocktails, haven't you heard? No need to work in a bar when they just fly at your face, unsolicited.

3w ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 24

I don't think green cat got the joke

3w ago   •  ♥ 7
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Sometimes I think I would be happier with no job at all.
  • 186
  • 2959
New York

I would definitely spend some time traveling and exploring followed by learning new hobbies, spending more time with family, and finding a job I'm actually passionate about.

3mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 97
185
I read the last chapter of a book before I start so I am not disappointed at the end.
  • 126
  • 3021
San Francisco

I actually do the same thing. I also read plot summaries of movies I'm about to watch.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 38
125
Rainy days are for sharing a blanket with somebody you love while binging on Chinese takeout, DVR and Netflix.
  • 185
  • 2445
Los Angeles

Totally agree!

1mo ago   •  ♥ 8

That sounds perfect

1mo ago   •  ♥ 6

Good thing we're in Los Angeles and that never ever ever happens. :(

1mo ago   •  ♥ 26
182
When I go swimming I swim like a manatee.
  • 64
  • 1549
Los Angeles

I look like a manatee.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 39
63
I went on a date with a guy I found unattractive because I really wanted to see his dog.
  • 31
  • 348
Missouri

I dated a girl once because she was conveniently located near a great bagel place and I would go there the morning after.

3mo ago   •  ♥ 30
30
I wish I believed in God. It would make everything easier...
  • 33
  • 430
Nice

Yes, finding your own solutions is harder than taking the one on the shelves.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 28

Vice versa he "wishes" you would believe in him :)

2mo ago   •  ♥ 11

(or her?)

2mo ago   •  ♥ 3
30
I work for Microsoft but I hate Windows and I want to be an Android developer.
  • 84
  • 1205
United Kingdom

I work for Google and I hate Android. I want to build iPhone apps.

3mo ago   •  ♥ 91
83
Once upon a time I was falling in love, now I'm falling apart.
  • 102
  • 1869
Denver

Besides having a total eclipse of the heart. Why?

2mo ago   •  ♥ 73
101
If falling in love is like falling asleep (slow at first and then all at once), I'm pretty sure I've insomnia.
  • 7
  • 201
Malaysia

Cause i can't fall asleep / fall in love 😭

2mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 10

Totally feel you. I do want to fall in love but I feel that I've become too conscious for it to happen.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 2

I think at some point we get too protective of our hearts and just a bit afraid of getting hurt again.

2mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 17
4
I want to run away from home. I'm the mom.
  • 36
  • 306
Israel

Mom?

2mo ago   •  ♥ 18

Mine can't type yet. LOL.

2mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 16

You're in good shape if you can run...

2mo ago   •  ♥ 16
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Torn between wanting to look good in a bikini and wanting to stuff my face with burgers. I think is choose the latter.
  • 118
  • 348
Louisiana

When it doubt always go with burgers

4mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 30
117
Whenever I check my work email, especially first thing in the morning, I do a silent prayer: "Please no mail, please no mail, please no mail."
  • 50
  • 1945
San Francisco

Never happens. It's always open floodgates ...

5mo ago   •  ♥ 18

Me too

5mo ago   •  ♥ 10

lolyarite

5mo ago   •  ♥ 3
47
I would straight up murder a stranger on the street for a pet sloth.
  • 37
  • 221
Los Angeles

Hell yeah!

2mo ago   •  ♥ 2

Hahaha

2mo ago   •  ♥ 1

Me too.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 1
34
Secret margarita Fridays is now happening in our office... If the senior staff only knew
  • 22
  • 264
Illinois

Except the times when they precede layoffs. The proofreaders are always the first to go.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 49
21
I never imagined my heart could miss a five year old so much. I had to call just to hear her giggle. It's been two days too long.
  • 1
  • 322
Missouri

Wonder who this could be?

5mo ago   •  ♥ 7
0
The only time my father and I can really connect is when we’re both under the influence. Other than that, emotions just don’t come into our interactions. I wish we could do that without the booze.
  • 28
  • 2546
New Zealand

Enjoy what you have. I can't even talk with my dad when we're drunk

3mo ago   •  ♥ 36
27
I'm never scared of rockets, fire or blood. But now my wife is 5 months pregnant and I'm scared as shit.
  • 105
  • 4519
Israel

Being the pregnant one is pretty damn scary too.

3mo ago   •  ♥ 56
104
Thanks to the Internet, my closest friends live 2000 miles and 90 milliseconds away.
  • 9
  • 458
Los Angeles

I know. Amazing, huh?!

5mo ago   •  ♥ 2

But we're only 1.7 miles away from each other! I might have just passed you at Whole Foods. Even weirder & more amazing!

5mo ago

1.7 miles away - which whole foods

5mo ago
6
Just found out my 94 year old grandpa has cancer. I know death and sickness is inevitable at that age, but it still hurts so much to think of losing him so soon.
  • 40
  • 204
San Francisco

Hugs, OP. If there were something I, or anyone, could say to make some pain go away, I would, but I also know how little warmth they bring at a moment like this.

3mo ago   •  ♥ 3

I'm so sorry.

3mo ago

Maybe. Even at that age, if it's the right kind of cancer there are immunotherapies that have little side effects!

3mo ago   •  ♥ 2
37
I wish I had someone to confide in, the way everyone confides in me.
  • 11
  • 1892
Qatar

Confide in we your Secret friends!

6mo ago   •  ♥ 67
10
I own so many lovely workout clothes but I barely have the energy to function.
  • 8
  • 1605
United Kingdom

Exhausted from work?

5mo ago   •  ♥ 10

Maybe you can wear them out, it could be your style. #Workoutclothestrend

5mo ago   •  ♥ 5

Go out and drink and dance in them. You'll be more of a mover than anyone else in the room

5mo ago   •  ♥ 4
5
If the bros at work can watch The World Cup during office hours, I should also be able to catch up on Real Housewives
  • 113
  • 1271
San Francisco

It's not about bros vs. hos. The World Cup, the SuperBowl, the Olympics, etc. are all about coming together as a city or a nation to cheer on the people that represent us in a way that doesn't involve death and war. The bitches on RH are only about flipping hair and tables and buying shit nobody needs.

3mo ago   •  ♥ 79
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