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I've already planned to pack my stuff into my car and move several states away right after Christmas and I haven't told anyone yet
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Not running from anything. I'm young though, I'm not married, I have no kids, I have a job here that I can leave whenever. If I'm going to do it I figured now would be best time to.

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I hate Movember - it mucks with my douche-dar.
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Any awareness about testicular cancer is good awareness. I think you'll live...

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Everyone looks homeless in November

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I know of a good way of recalibrating your douche-dar. Look in the mirror. If you see any qualities of yourself in someone else, chance are good you'll get a ping.

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whenever you're feeling sad and down, remember that someone in the world is pushing on a door that says PULL
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Me

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I'm always amazed by how poorly people follow signs.

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That might be me. Mostly because I'm distracted by something else and not paying attention.

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Instead of going to Starbucks, I make my own coffee, loudly mispronounce my name multiple times, then light a $5 bill on fire.
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No you don't.

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I'm 2 years cancer free but I worry all the time that it will come back. It's all I think about.
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That amount of worrying itself is unhealthy. So sorry. Do you have access to see a psychologist?

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I have a therapist. But it's always going to be in the back of my mind...I guess I should know that I am going to be okay...I wasn't supposed to win my battle the first time...

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miracleee😭😍

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I only liked your tinder profile because of your dog.
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No bonus points for having a cute dog?

4mo ago   •  ♥ 1

Huge bonus points when there's a cute dog.

4mo ago   •  ♥ 12

Cute dog or a uniform or a well tailored suit. ALL THE POINTS.

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everything I like is expensive, illegal, or not texting me back
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story of my life

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Just move to a place where it'll be legal cheap and responsive like Thailand oh India!

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Or all three!

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I'm not one to brag about my finances but my credit card company calls me once a week to tell me my balance is outstanding
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Sounds irrelevant

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I just found out I have two half brothers I have never met. They don't know I exist. Neither do their parents. I don't know how to approach.
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Whats with all the gay references, I'm not even a boy.

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I take the stairs to avoid awkward elevator conversations.
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Those are some messed up elevator buttons

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Tshirt beat me to it!

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LOL I noticed the buttons and then read the comments. What's the max number of flights you'll walk up OP?

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I just stole a tater tot off the table next to mine at brunch. It was delicious.
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We got a badass over here.

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I have tons of friends and yet I still constantly feel alone.
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Same here. Sorry friend.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 5

I also feel this way. I think the best thing to do is to reach out to others around you. They probably are lonely too.

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Thanks orange plug it's hard to reach out and not seem needy

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Why do I feel fine about purchasing a $12 cocktail but $14 for the new Taylor Swift album feels unreasonable?
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Because Taylor Swift. 🎶😬🔫

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I love lying about things that aren't important. I do it constantly. Its almost an addiction.
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I fucking hate people who do that. It's going to cost you friends, relationships and maybe even jobs someday. Note: people fucking hate that. You must be Filipino.

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My first point is(drum roll plz) racism is a lot more likely to lose you a job(doesnt matter if youre filipino). So far it hasn't done much to my relationships. Your judgemental outlook on people must make the people around you silently cringe.

1mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 13

Filipino? Wow ok.

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I'm so lazy, that in order to change the clock in my car, I just wait for daylight savings to come around 😜😉☺️
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Me too. But I had to stop . Continuously scared myself thinking I was way late!!!!

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Hahaha that happens to me.. But then I also get excited when I'm like "oh wait I'm early"

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It's a wicked double edge sword. After my first heart attack I normally change the time.

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I don't really believe in the concept of "the one," but I still kind of hope you turn out to be my "one."
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Tell your feelings!

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Definitely don't believe in the "one" but I do believe in the "right one" for the moment

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Love these birds!

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Every time there's a power outage, my brain immediately thinks it's the start of a zombie apocalypse.
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That's a smart brain.

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Whaaaaat

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😐yup

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That's a pretty ambivalent face

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There's a strange social stigma against eating alone...but why? I just want to enjoy some delicious food without having to think about making conversations.
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Google keith Ferrazi

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@wine my time is not a commodity that I'm willing to trade for "success". I network and connect people often and I value my freedom to do as I please with my time.

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Stop worrying about what the sheeple think... and have a nice dinner.

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I watch an episode of my little pony while eating a bowl of cereal before going to work every morning.
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It was my ritual when I was a kid getting ready for school and I re-adopted it when I had to start getting up early for work. I'm kinda groggy in the morning so it gives me time to wake up and become functional—plus it's cute so it does cheer me up. Definitely the new one (friendship is magic) and I hate to disappoint, but I'm a girl. Thx for the love.

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Tempting. But I'm afraid everyone in LA is as horrible as everyone says they are.
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La people do suck. You will hate it at first then it grows on you.... Like herpes.

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I don't know how to handle being really mad at a friend for the first time in our friendship. I want this feeling to go away.
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If you're this upset make sure to say something.. They'll still be your friend :)

1mo ago   •  ♥ 16

What did they do to upset you? Best to talk it out and I'm sure it will be fine

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If it's the first time, explain it and forgive him. If it happens again, cut him loose.

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If Britney can survive 2007 I can survive today.
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Strangely motivating

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But did she really ?

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I tell myself this on days I feel like a total hot mess of a failure (which is thankfully not too often anymore).

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I have felt amazing ever since I quit my job
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I need to do this.

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I'd been thinking about it for months but was afraid. I finally did it, and I've never felt better

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Huevon!

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You're sacrificing too much for her. We all know you want kids.
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Woah. I want to know who you're talking about friend!

1mo ago   •  ♥ 8

It is what it is though.

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When he leaves and has a family he'll regret that he gave up a rare childfree woman. Kids are a gamble and people usually end up in debt if they're not well off.

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I'm having doubts about applying to art school, even though it's my dream.
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It is expensive.. But after everything totally worth it! Especially of you go for architecture/design.. Those jobs will pay out better and help elevate debt faster. (If we are going to be rational about the decision)

1mo ago   •  ♥ 4

FUCKING GO MAN! Finding a job will be tough but it's your DREAM YOUR DREAM! Don't look back I'm twenty years and wonder what if, go and drive for it!

1mo ago   •  ♥ 5

No if you not doing anything in digital creatives you will not have a job and be broke and in debt.

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There was a time not long ago when I was very critical of people who seemed inept at dealing with life's curveballs. I very much regret being critical today.
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I respect that you're growing from it and are able to empathize now.

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Sometimes when it's hot outside I crank up the air conditioner and snuggle in a blanket. I should never have been allowed to become an adult.
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I miss having A/C

1mo ago   •  ♥ 1

You have AC in San Francisco!!!!

1mo ago   •  ♥ 14

I do that all the time. I can't sleep unless I'm covered in blankets.

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I think I'm addicted to being stressed...
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Florida

I'm addicted to sex so..

1mo ago   •  ♥ 16

I am addicted to worrying about the future. Its exhausting! 😕

1mo ago   •  ♥ 24

Same. It's not life if I'm not stressed

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I read through old messages just so I can smile for the day
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San Francisco

Me too!

1mo ago   •  ♥ 3

Same, except most of the time I cringe

1mo ago   •  ♥ 3

Ouch

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Not to brag, but I finished this 14 day diet in 4 hours and 39 minutes.
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❤️ u

1mo ago   •  ♥ 5

LOL

1mo ago   •  ♥ 5

Lol! That made me laugh. Most things on secret are soo serious.

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I love my girlfriend so much and we have a great life together. But we're in our 30s and she doesn't want to have kids and I think I might want to. Super afraid of making the wrong choice either way.
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San Francisco

Your GF is spot the fuck on. Kids are a major drain. The world is overpopulated anyway. You don't really want kids, it is just your dwindling libido. Get a hobby and stop trying to find fulfillment through a biological imperative.

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It takes all my willpower not to call in sick on rainy days.
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San Francisco

So hard not to just lay in bed and do nothing

1mo ago   •  ♥ 8

Move to the Bay Area, friend! It never rains, but you'll find an entirely different reason to want to call in sick!

1mo ago   •  ♥ 11

What reason is that @football?

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Most spoiled techie thing I've done in my life: order an iPhone 6 and then hired a task rabbit to wait in line for me.
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San Francisco

This is why they hate us.

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I was just diagnosed with bipolar. I have no-one to turn to.
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San Francisco

Bipolar and multiple personality disorder are two completely different illnesses, club. OP I was diagnosed recently too. You can talk to me if you want :)

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Told myself I wouldn't relocate for a job anymore but I just agreed to. Again.
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New York

NYC 👉SF

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The first five days after the weekend are the hardest.
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San Francisco

dat truth doe

1mo ago   •  ♥ 6

Amen

1mo ago   •  ♥ 5

How is this a secret? Have you heard about this thing called Twitter? I know, I know, you can post whatever you want. But imagine all those hearts in favs.

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"I don't like the way he's treating you." I needed to hear that, and the person who said was almost a complete stranger. She really changed things for me.
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New York

Don't ever settle OP <3 no one deserves less than what's best for them~ if someone isn't treating you right then drop them because even if you don't see it EVERYONE has someone that would treat them better~

2mo ago   •  ♥ 5

Be careful. A complete stranger only has your side and it's easy to hear what you want. But if he is really the one being unreasonable deep down you'll know, then dump him.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 16

Remember, in every relationship, it all comes down to your happiness. If you aren't happy in a relationship, then move on; a relationship shouldn't be hard.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 6
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I consider it a personal victory if I get too drunk and don't find any texts to my exes the next morning.
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San Francisco

Ditto, but when I wake up with my phone, wallet and CCs with no open tabs

2mo ago   •  ♥ 2

Drunk you could be deleting evidence so that hungover you feels victory

2mo ago   •  ♥ 6

Loser!

2mo ago
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I just saw Neil DeGrasse Tyson speak and it makes me wish I lived up to my potential.
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Minnesota

Chill.

6mo ago   •  ♥ 1

Same with me...

6mo ago

Why don't you do it now? Only you are stopping yourself, once you know better. Your younger self didn't, so forgive her and move on.

6mo ago   •  ♥ 1
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I feel so behind in life. I just thought I'd be at a much different point by now.
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New York

Chin up buttercup! You still have the rest of your life to get shit done.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 16

You'll be fine! We've all felt this way in life I'm sure. Your just finding yourself

2mo ago   •  ♥ 8

I think a lot of people feel this way. I feel that way too. Make things happen, it's never too late!! :)

2mo ago   •  ♥ 13
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I eat healthy all day and exercise like a demon...Then I drunk-eat at midnight.
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New York

Sounds perfect

2mo ago   •  ♥ 7

Fuck conventional wisdom. Do what makes you happy!

2mo ago   •  ♥ 6

That's my life! HOW DID YOU GET INSIDE MY HEAD

2mo ago   •  ♥ 8
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I totally just used my hair straightener to iron my skirt.
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New York

That works? ??

1mo ago   •  ♥ 2

Yessir

1mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 6

Pretty brilliant. Though I'll just use a steamer.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 1
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I just looked up my ex BFs marathon time just to make sure I'm still faster....I am
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Chicago

Ahhhhhh....satisfaction

1mo ago   •  ♥ 5

Suck on the asshole!

1mo ago   •  ♥ 2

That's sad.

1mo ago   •  ♥ 9
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My life is just a series of awkward moments separated by snacks.
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Nashville

You're on quite a roll this morning, friend.

3mo ago   •  ♥ 13

Sounds like u have an amazing life

3mo ago   •  ♥ 10

I see nothing wrong here

1mo ago   •  ♥ 7
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I keep the plastic on my electronics. Always. The plastic on my printer has lasted longer than my last two relationships.
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New York

That shows plastic is much more loyal. I need a Ken doll

4mo ago   •  ♥ 13

The plastic was usually cleaner and more useful in the end.

4mo ago   •  Author   •  ♥ 12

Me too! I thought I was the only one.

4mo ago   •  ♥ 1
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I never ever talk about my body but deep down I think if I was skinny I would have everything I want.
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Los Angeles

It has nothing to do with weight.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 6

I feel similarly to this, FoF. I've been told many times that it doesn't matter, though, and I suspect if I lost a lot of weight it wouldn't magically make me a better person.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 7

Honestly, though, I wish I had a more concrete answer. I feel like losing a large amount of weight would probably improve my motivation and make me happier - maybe that, in turn, would make me more desirable. I think a lot of the reason I avoid doing anything is because I don't think I could handle it if I lost a ton of weight and then I was still lonely and miserable. That's the point at which I'd realise the problem was with me and not just how I look, which is what I currently hide behind.

2mo ago   •  ♥ 9
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Even in my 30's I'm still afraid of a shark coming out of the flappy thing in swimming pools just to eat me
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San Francisco

Just loled in the middle of spin class

2mo ago

OMFG i thought I was the only one who feared that

2mo ago   •  ♥ 6

We all do. And the monster under the bed grabbing your foot if it hangs over the side

2mo ago   •  ♥ 8
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